Hi im Shannen, and i joined this thinking i could find some closure and some help about coming out and really finding out who i am,, i am so confused as to wether u CANT be bi u have to either be lezbian or heterosexual, im so confused.... heres my story:
I was abused at the age of 11 and from then on i havent been able to trust men as much as i used to, i have since then been confused about my feelings toward girls and guys, my first girl crush was my best friend, i couldnt beleive i was having these feelings for a girl, when i was meant to be having them for the guy i was with. i didnt realise then that what feelings i had then would change my life, since then i have been questioning my sexuallity and now i have this mega crush on this girl at school even though i have a boyfriend, she is bi-curious and so am i. we both think we have feelings for each other but are too scared to do anything about it.
i have tried talkin to my boss (she is gay) but that just made me even more confused then what i already was.
does anyone have any help they can provide me with??
this is the first official LGBT group i have joined and im very nervous....
First time...by #LGBT-on-dA